Blue Water Doula Collective

Doula Directory

Jen Willoughby, OTRL

Jen Willoughby is the Founder and Steward of the Blue Water Doula Collective, leading a collaborative community that supports doulas and families through life’s most sacred transitions. With over 20 years as an occupational therapist, educator, and college professor, Jen blends clinical depth with compassionate, presence-centered care.
She created BWDC’s Core and Steward Memberships to offer meaningful pathways for growth, mentorship, and leadership. Jen also developed the End-of-Life Doula Training Program, delivered with BWDC Stewards, to prepare doulas with the knowledge, confidence, and ethical foundation to serve with purpose.
Through her leadership, Jen is redefining how we approach end-of-life care—shifting it from a medical event to a deeply human experience rooted in dignity, connection, and presence. She continues to build a model of care that strengthens doulas, supports families, and ensures that no one walks these sacred transitions alone.

Judy Haynes

Judy Haynes is a Steward of the Blue Water Doula Collective and a guiding light who helped support its grassroots beginnings. As a Lifespan Doula with dementia training, she offers compassionate support across the full continuum of life.
Judy is a trusted mentor and educator, known for her work in Five Wishes, advance care planning, and meaningful legacy building. Her grounded presence and wisdom help both families and doulas approach end-of-life with clarity, connection, and intention.
Through her role within BWDC, Judy continues to nurture and guide both doulas and families—offering steady support, thoughtful education, and a compassionate presence. Her work helps create space for meaningful conversations, intentional planning, and a deeper sense of peace along the journey.

Jacqueline Neisz, RN

Jacqueline Neisz is a registered nurse and Lifespan Doula supporting individuals through birth, postpartum, and end-of-life care with deep reverence and presence. She has been part of the Blue Water Doula Collective since its grassroots beginnings, helping shape the heart and foundation of the community.
Jacqueline is known for her sacred approach to birth and vigil services, holding space at both the beginning and end of life with compassion and intention. She is also the creator of the Death Priestess Program and offers womb-centered care, guiding individuals in healing, remembrance, and connection across the full continuum of life.
Her work is intuitive, grounded, and deeply honoring—supporting others in the most tender and transformative moments.

Karen Gorski

Karen Gorski is a retired nurse and End-of-Life Doula specializing in guiding individuals and families through aging, dying, and end-of-life planning with clarity and confidence. With expertise in geriatric and dementia care, she delivers both clinical insight and compassionate support.
Karen is known for her comprehensive “death book,” a powerful planning tool that organizes final wishes, critical information, and important details in one place. Her approach removes uncertainty, reduces stress for caregivers, and ensures nothing is left unspoken or unplanned.
By helping individuals prepare well in advance, Karen allows families to focus on what truly matters—living fully in the present. When it comes to getting your affairs in order, you can count on Karen to guide the process with precision, care, and professionalism.

Robin Krug

Robin Krug is a birth and postpartum doula offering compassionate, trauma-informed, and equitable care that honors each family’s autonomy and unique journey. She creates a safe, nurturing space where birthing individuals feel seen, heard, and empowered.
As a Steward with the Blue Water Doula Collective, Robin is stepping into leadership through service—bringing her voice, care, and commitment to supporting both families and fellow doulas within the community.
Her approach is heart-centered—supporting families with presence, respect, and confidence during one of life’s most transformative experiences.